clubbing = flings?

hmms...just a thought since a few of my friends had issues arising from clubbing.

Things DO happen in clubs. In fact, it seems to be the place where these things happen the easiest. Actually I don't think it's all scandalous and bad, since everyone is just having fun and letting loose. Dancing and drinking are two things that is no fun doing alone. And duuh you need a partner or a group be it guys or girls to dance waad. Siao arh or else dance alone meh? If you are paranoid about being rumoured together, then dance with girls lah. I still think it's damn fun to dance with my bitches waad. Especially how me and Li will go crazy when OUR song is being played =D

AND it you wish to dance with the opp. sex , heys no big deal since everyone is out to have fun. But one word - Discipline. Whatever happens in the clubs, keep it within the clubs. Don't ever bring whatever it is outta the clubs and confuse it with reality. Everyone is still the same friends. Those are not true feelings and love. And when people start to confuse that with true feelings and love, that's how it all starts to get ugly.

It is sad if these so called flings were once your good friends. And when things start to get outta hand, the friendship is torn and broken, never able to be the same way again.

So...to that few peeps of mine, hope everything will turn out well for you! To those who had never experienced this before, don't ever let it happen.